Someone on Quora asked the loaded question - why are Germans so unfriendly - and when I read this at the crack of dawn I could not resist the temptation to answer it with one finger typing on my tablet. So here is the text below German social behaviour is different from say, English speakers. English is a mid-subtle language. Saving face and politeness are important, being perfect is less important. German dignity comes from merit. Being perfect is important. 1. We generally avoid direct refusals English : We'll see what we can do . German. No . 2. Specific confirmation of informal social events. English: "Are you going to the pub on Friday? Probably/possibly/perhaps /maybe." (avoids No) German: " Yes + time/No ." 3. The imperative: (which is considered abrupt or rude in English even if you have authority. Imperative sentences are normal in German.) English: "Could you give me that book?" German: " Give